Alumnae Association Annual Meeting

Co-Presidents Martha Goodloe and Harriet Solomon gave this introduction to the presentation of our 50th Reunion Class Gift at the Bryn Mawr Alumnae Assocation Annual Meeting, May 31, 2015:

Co-Presidents Martha and Harriet at the Alumnae Association Meeting

Co-Presidents Martha and Harriet (front row) at the Alumnae Association Meeting

The class of 1965 was a class that bridged two worlds. We grew up during the halcyon, leave-it-to-beaver days of the 1950s, but by the time we entered Bryn Mawr as freshmen in 1961, the world was changing. The Viet Nam war and the Voting Rights Act of 1965 were on the horizon, and so were Title VII and the decision of institutions like Princeton, Harvard and Yale to admit women. In 1961, smart women like us went to Bryn Mawr, as they continue to do today.

Without the internet, cell phones, laptops and iPads and only one television per dormitory and one telephone per floor, we were somewhat isolated from the outside world. But we were still socially conscious and touched by the civil rights movement. We gathered on the lawn behind Rhoads to sing “We shall overcome.” During the 1963 summer break, we heard Martin Luther King’s voice ring out to “all God’s children” that he had a dream. And we knew when Miss McBride went to Chester in the middle of the night to post bail for some of our more activist classmates. In 1962, we held our collective breaths during the Cuban missile crisis. In 1963, we were united in shock and grief when President Kennedy was assassinated.

During our first few weeks as Bryn Mawters, we dutifully learned Greek songs, including Sophias in three-part harmony. As instructed, we brought tea sets with us from home and served tea during noisy hour at 4 in the afternoon. Knitting was all the rage, and we somehow managed to take notes while knitting during class. Smoking was allowed, but confined to first-floor smokers, where bridge games were a distraction for some of us. We mostly obeyed the rules about not wearing pants to dinner or the Ville, and all our meals were sit-down affairs in dormitory dining rooms. In a custom that was not to last much longer, maids served us our meals as we sat chatting. In another sign of changing times, we were required to sign out if we left the campus at night, but we didn’t have to sign back in until 2 a.m. And we could sign out overnight anywhere except Haverford.

As the years passed, we struggled with freshman comp deadlines; we met the two-language proficiency requirement; we chose our majors; and we endured comprehensive exams in our majors during the last few weeks of our undergraduate years. We passed a swimming test in a pool located in the basement of what is now the student center; and we mostly joked about a required health course that was supposed to teach us about birth control and other less controversial matters no one remembers. We were all required to take the ever-popular Philosophy 101. For those of us who took Philosophy 101 from Dr. Nahm, we got to know the future President McPherson as his teaching assistant, Pat McPherson. Still influenced by Bryn Mawr’s Quaker origins, we referred to most of our professors as “Miss” and “Mr.” To us, even President McBride was “Miss McBride.”

After graduation, we went our separate ways, some to marriage and some not, some to work, and some to graduate school. We mourn the 22 of our classmates who died in the years following 1965, but of those of us who remain, more than 1/3 have returned to Bryn Mawr to celebrate our 50th reunion. Some of us travelled from as far away as California and Seattle. Some of us travelled even farther, crossing the Atlantic from our homes in England and Germany. Others of us came from right down the road in Philadelphia or its suburbs. All of us look pretty good for having just started the eighth decade of our lives.

Of our original class of 203, 191 (or 94%) completed their AB degrees, and 155 (or 76%) earned graduate degrees. Forty of us earned PhDs, and 84 earned master’s degrees, either an MA or an MSS. Fourteen of us earned a JD degree; 9 of us earned an MD degree; and 8 earned an MBA.

So we are mothers and proud grandmothers; lawyers and doctors, business women and social workers; professors and educators at all levels; writers, artists and musicians; biologists, chemists, psychologists and archaeologists; poets and a minister; economists, translators, editors and a figure skater. We are also volunteers and activists working to make a better world. Our very own Arlene Joy Gibson is the retiring chair of the Bryn Mawr Board of Trustees. We are justly proud of her.

Today, as our 50th Reunion Week End comes to an end, we celebrate each other and all that we have accomplished. We also honor the College for the part it has played in bringing us to this day.

50th Reunion Essay Book

Dear Classmates,

Our fiftieth Bryn Mawr reunion is fast approaching,  May 29 to 31, 2015. This will be a major chance for us to reconnect in a lively way, with each other and with the College. Amidst the conversations, meals, parties and parades, one of the enduring inspirations of each reunion is our book of personal essays. When we’ve had a chance to learn something of each other’s lives, the joys and sorrows, the challenges and achievements, the relationships and questions, we have been able to move from superficial cocktail party talk to real connections with each other.

We hope many of you will be able to be present in person, to share our stories face to face and to experience the campus as it is today, to meet some of the undergraduate helpers, to sing, to share meals, and to remember the classmates we have lost. But we invite all of you, whether you will be at Reunion in body or spirit, to write your essay for the book of 1965 – Please send us no more than two sides of an 8 ½ X 11 page in 12 point type. The content and structure are up to you, but here are some possible questions to address:

What has been the enduring influence of your Bryn Mawr experience?

What have been the biggest joys and sorrows of your life so far?

What has been the arc of your career; your personal life; your political, spiritual or artistic life?

What would you do differently?

How are you approaching your retirement years?

What is your view of the state of the world these fifty years since graduation?

Please include your contact information and a recent photo – we would like to include a directory section, but we need some technical help with formatting and reproducing pictures.  Who could take on this task?  Please respond to Kerry.

Please submit your essay to Kerry Mueller

If you prefer to send a hard copy, my address is:
65 Oak Knoll
Berwyn PA 19312

>>  Due date: March 15, 2015

Remember your struggles with Freshman Comp and don’t put this off til midnight Sunday. We need a good lead time to get it printed, bound, and distributed at the registration desk at Reunion.

Anassa Kata,

Kerry Mueller, Reunion Book Editor
Eleanor Midkiff, Reunion. Manager

Several other Reunion Features:

1.  Registration begins April 2

2.  There will be an optional trip to the Barnes Foundation Art Museum: tickets for this event sell out quickly so be sure to register early.

3.  Our class will have a display in our registration area – a chance for you to show your artwork, books or other writings, music, or whatever creative endeavors you can share in a small space.  Plan now to bring whatever you would like to share.  (We have no special insurance or security for this).

4.  Our class has a blog!  Check it out at:

Welcome to the BMC Class of 1965

Greetings to all, lo these 50 years later, from Harriet ( and Martha (!

First and foremost, as co-presidents for the Class of 1965, we hope to see you at our 50th Reunion, May 29 to May 31, 2015. More details will follow, but please mark your calendars for this momentous occasion.

Your Class of 1965 Reunion Chairs, Jo Frodin ( and Eleanor Midkiff (, will need both your ideas and your help. As always, we will have a “social room” in our assigned dormitory where we can all gather informally and reminisce. We will also have a time set aside Saturday morning for meeting as a class. What kinds of activities (or refreshments) would you like to have during these times? During all of Reunion week end (including marching with Reunion classes, accompanied by bagpipes, on what we hope will be a sunny and bright Sunday morning), how would you like us to identify ourselves as the Class of 1965 − red hats, red scarves, something else? And would you be able to serve on Eleanor and Jo’s committee, either before or during Reunion week end?

Reunion 2010 Parade PhotoKerry Mueller ( has volunteered once again to prepare our Reunion Booklet and would also like your ideas and your help. What would you like included? What would you think of narratives combined with photographs then and now for each of us? Can you help Kerry put it all together? Can any of you provide financial support so that our booklet can be professionally bound, as a lasting memento of where we’ve been and all we’ve accomplished over the last five decades?

And then, of course, there’s our Reunion Gift. We have a committee of dedicated volunteers who will be working on making the Class of 1965’s gift to the College one of which we can be proud. Along with our Reunion Gift chair Maxine (Master) Long ( , and Harriet Solomon and Martha Goodloe as your co-presidents, Eileen Bazelon, Eugenie Birch, Barbara Fraser, Marion Freedman-Gurspan, Marise Melson, Alice Powers and Carol Wolfe will be contacting you throughout the coming year to ask you to consider what you can give. The Alumnae Association (especially Molly Scott, will be helping each step of the way, but having more members on the committee would ensure a Reunion gift that would appropriately honor both our Class and the College. If you can help, please contact Molly or Maxine.

Thanks go to Ann Campbell ( for volunteering to maintain our Class web page and help us stay in touch. At this site you can click on photos of past reunions, join Athena’s Web, read and comment on posts and stay in touch.

And, finally, Harriet and Martha have been privileged to serve as your co-presidents since the last two Reunions, but you should be thinking of whom you would like to be your presidents and officers for our next decade.


Remember how much fun our 45th reunion was in 2010? You can relive some of the highlights by viewing the photos Stu Solomon took here.